Marriage Redeemed

July 29, 2015

Today’s Reflection

WHAT WE OFTEN fail to understand is that God not only hates divorce, God also hates a marriage that is not fulfilling its purpose. Marriage is meant to help husband, wife, and all children become all that God intended for them to be. Divorce needs to be compared with a bad marriage, not a good one. Neither divorce nor a bad marriage is the will of God.

God only desires good marriages. Often, marriages that are not functioning well can be repaired. When that is possible, certainly it should be done. When it is not possible, however, divorce can be like surgery. It will leave scars on everyone involved, but it can allow for people to put their lives back together and be redeemed. We must also remember that it takes two people working together to make a good marriage. It really only takes one person to make a divorce. If one person decides to stop trying, the marriage cannot succeed to fulfill God’s will. …

Divorce and remarriage may not be what God intended. However, they are not unforgivable sins. God does not cast off those who have failed at marriage and then seek to try again. I can personally attest that my faith has grown significantly since my divorce in 1977 and my remarriage in 1982. I have seen similar growth among hundreds of others. God is constantly seeking to redeem his children.

– Dick Dunn
In Love Again and Making It Work

From pages 9-10 of In Love Again and Making It Work: Successful Remarriage by Dick Dunn. Copyright © 2008 Discipleship Resources. All rights reserved. Used by permission. http://bookstore.upperroom.org/ Learn more about or purchase this book.

Today’s Question

Pray for someone who is having difficulty in his or her marriage. Share your thoughts.

Today’s Scripture

Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love; according to your abundant mercy blot out my transgressions.

Psalm 51:1, NRSV

This Week: pray for broken relationships. Submit your prayer to The Upper Room Living Prayer Center or share it in the comment section below.

Did You Know?

In need of prayer? The Upper Room Living Prayer Center is a 7-day-a-week intercessory prayer ministry staffed by trained volunteers, call 1-800-251-2468 or visit The Living Prayer Center web site.

Saints, Inc.:

This week we remember: Ignatius of Loyola (July 31).

Lectionary Readings

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Today’s Reflection

PRISONS AROUND THE WORLD are ill-equipped to deal with HIV and AIDS. In Africa, facilities are so crowded that in order to change position while sleeping, one prisoner has to announce to the others to “roll over,” and every man turns at the same time. In Latin America children go to jail with their parents. In the United States a high number of young African American men are incarcerated for various periods of time, which may correlate with the disproportionate rate of HIV infections being experienced in the African American community.

Most governments refuse to allow condom distribution in prisons, arguing it would encourage promiscuity. Yet sexual activity and abuse among prisoners remains rampant around the world. Overlooked and underfunded, correction facilities and programs fall at the low end of government and nongovernment priorities. Until prison reform turns an eye toward preventing the spread of HIV, the pandemic will continue.

– Donald E. Messer
52 Ways to Create an AIDS-Free World

From page 99 of 52 Ways to Create an AIDS-Free World by Donald E. Messer. Copyright 2009 by Donald E. Messer. All rights reserved. Used by permission of Fresh Air Books. http://bookstore.upperroom.org/ Learn more about or purchase this book.

Today’s Question

Is there an AIDS advocacy group neat you? Consider contacting them and ask about their needs. Share your thoughts.

Today’s Scripture

David said to Nathan, “I have sinned against the LORD.”

2 Samuel 12:13a, NRSV

This Week: pray for broken relationships. Submit your prayer to The Upper Room Living Prayer Center or share it in the comment section below.

Did You Know?

In need of prayer? The Upper Room Living Prayer Center is a 7-day-a-week intercessory prayer ministry staffed by trained volunteers, call 1-800-251-2468 or visit The Living Prayer Center web site.

Saints, Inc.:

This week we remember: Ignatius of Loyola (July 31).

Lectionary Readings

(Courtesy of Vanderbilt Divinity Library)

Sponsored by Upper Room Ministries ®. Copyright © 2015, a ministry of Discipleship Ministries | PO Box 340004 | Nashville, TN 37203-0004 | USA

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Praying As Repentance

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Letting Go

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Nature

July 24, 2015

Today’s Reflection Listen to the voice of the rainbow,bend to morning sounds of the dewhear the gentle tones of the flowers,their songs they will sing to you. For you were created for hearingtheir lyrics more lucent than speechthat come to you through the silenceto comfort, inspire, teach. – Gerrie L. Grimsley and Jane J. Young […]

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Loving Away Our Fear

July 23, 2015

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Why Should Children Learn About Stewardship?

July 22, 2015

Today’s Reflection YOU MAY HAVE questions as to why we should teach stewardship to children. These questions usually come from people who view stewardship as a means for raising the budget. Here are reasons you can give them: In today’s world children develop a sense of entitlement and dissatisfaction because of the materialistic messages that […]

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God, the Composer of All Song

July 21, 2015

Today’s Reflection FOR CENTURIES distinctions have been made between sacred and secular music—as if we could divide music that is connected to God from music that is not. But God is always speaking, God is always listening: in the concert hall and on the street corner, at the protest march and at the child’s bedside, […]

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The Characteristics of the Kingdom of God

July 20, 2015

Today’s Reflection a href=”http://bookstore.upperroom.org/Products/DR539/dirty-word.aspx”> LOOK AT THE CHARACTERISTICS of the kingdom of God. Authenticity. Intimacy. Tightly-knit relationships. Do we find these things in the church today? Or are we more likely to find superficiality, isolation, and an individualism that reinforces an already pervasive spirit of selfishness in our culture? Where the kingdom of God is […]

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